Cliff Talks: X-Factors in Biblical Parenthood
Cliff talks: Biblical Parenthood to disciple the next Generation
It is ok to fail. it is not ok to Quit.
As I am working on my thesis for my M Div, I started to think about being a father. One thing that dawned on my mind when I first step into fatherhood, especially when it comes to discipling our children, is that I realized I couldn’t do it. Or I don’t think I can. I […]
Dismount and push
In Singapore, they built paved paths known as PCN (Park Connectors). As the name implies, it connects from one park to another. This is great because you can cycle, blade or run between parks. Earlier this week I was exploring a route from Bishan down to Marina Bay Sands. It was fun exploring and riding […]
Who Should Disciple Our Children?

Who is really responsible for shaping our children’s faith—the church or us as parents? For a long time, I assumed the answer was the church. But over time, I realized something deeper about Christian fatherhood — that God has called parents to lead this responsibility at home. I love missions. I’m involved in ministry. I […]
What is Biblical Parenting?
When we started our homeschooling journey last year, we’ve met a number of homeschooling parents in Singapore. They are also Christian and a number of them rave about this Christian teaching methodology. I, too, desire my children to learn Jesus. So I went online and to find out more about this ‘methodology’. In a short […]
Do I want to go back to ministry? – a reflection
A special shoutout for my wife for putting the kids to sleep so I can write this blog 😀 I will jot a few thoughts about being a stay-at-home dad and someone who used to be in ministry. Today someone asked me this question, “do I want to go back to ministry?” The answer is […]
bending backward to share the joy of Christ to my kids
Growing up, my family never really celebrated Christmas. I remembered we use to put up a tree when I was small. But as we grew up, neither my sister nor myself felt the need to do any decoration. Mind you; we weren’t Christians. Though we were baptized as Catholics, we weren’t very religious. When I […]
Slowing Down

I love getting stuff done and getting them done fast. There is no better feeling than checking off my to-do list. I quickly learn that when I take my girls out, I have to slow down. Life is not about rushing to get stuff done. Instead, it is finding opportunities in the ordinary day to […]
Sowing Into My Children
Investing in Your Children Spiritually (Even When It Feels Small) When I first became a stay-at-home dad, I struggled with something I didn’t expect. I felt… unproductive. No meetings.No milestones.No obvious results. Just diapers, meals, messes, and repeat. It honestly felt like I wasn’t doing anything meaningful. But over time, God began to shift my […]