[Wed Q&A] How to move on from a relationship and forget about the person?

I received a number of questions about Jesus, faith and relationships. I’ve decided every Wednesday I will post one Question and Answer (Q&A). Wai Jia and I went back to Canada in June and we received a few questions from the youth in my church about relationship.  I will start with those and see where […]

Making it Count for Life

This article is written by my wife, Tam Wai Jia.   It is posted at National Family Council (NFC).  NFC promotes family matters in Singapore.   All my life, I (Wai Jia) never had a boyfriend. When I was 24, I was certain I would not get married. After all, I was headstrong and fiercely independent. […]

The Great Porn Experiment

If pornography addiction is just like drug addiction, I wonder if the church can help porn addicts recover just as we do with drug addicts. httpv://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wSF82AwSDiU

Between knees and tears

I had a revelation a few weeks ago.  It came after praying with much fear and tribulation.  I usually don’t pray on my knees.  I only do so when I really need to hear from the Lord.  One time after such prayers, I had the following thoughts… How come I always have to beg the […]

Godly Sorrow

Read the Gospel enough times and you will find that Jesus rarely gives a straight answer. Jesus often teaches in parables and even His disciples didn’t understand what He was saying (Mark 4, Parable of the Sower). When Pharisees and teachers of the law challenged Jesus with a question, He often responded back with a […]

[Video] The Incoherence of Atheism and Jesus Among Other Gods

Today, I came across two Youtube videos from Ravi Zacharias. The Incoherence of Atheism Ravi Zacharias unpacks the fault in atheism.  Normal apologetics discussion tends to be heavy intellectual.  If you know who Ravi, you know he is no exception.  What I found different in this talk is how Ravi grips me the emotional darkness […]

Finish Strong with the One You Love

Yesterday, Wai Jia and I completed our first triathlon together.  We had a great time.  It is awesome to be back into doing triathlon.  My last triathlon was in 2009.   It was great to be out and about. One of my friends in Canada just completed his first Ironman last night as well.  The race […]

Friends

Some people might hate it and some people might love it but I love Facebook.  I love Facebook because I get to catch up with all my friends back in Canada.   It is nice to see what they are up to like when my church had their summer retreat or a friend’s wedding.  Even […]

Starter and not a Finisher

Work’s network is down and so I am writing this blog via my phone. A few years ago, I was an avid blogger.   But lately, I found it very difficult to write a blog.  Actually, I would start but the it will never make it to the point when I click Publish. Yesterday as […]