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Chat: On Marriage and Beauty

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me: something that Tim Chester wrote


i really thought about this and took it to heart
  
u should always find your wife beautiful
  
like when u grow old together..u should still find (or learn to find) your wife beautiful
  
i think that’s important


i mean…appreciate her beauty..is important…
  
everyone is beautiful b/c everyone is created in the image of God
  
it is just our culture distorts bueaty
  
culture distorts beauty..b/c it projects what everyone should be
  
but that’s not true
  
like this..in North America.if u are skinny.and tall..u are consider to be beautiful
  
in other culture..like in Africa..if u are chubby u are consider to be beautiful


some cultre like dark skin..some like white skin
  
so beauty is all relative…culture…or people and media..we heighten that superficially


haha u are taking advice from a single guy who ain’t getting marry anytime soon 😛


D: we all have different measuring sticks.

me:  my measurement stick is my wife..(future wife)
  
and yours is ur wife

D: it’s good. i don’t believe you need to be married to be enlightened about relationships.
  
yeah, that’s the thing.

me: maybe when i get married and i get de-enlightened about relationships 😛

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