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Marriage Vow

I promise to love you, to comfort you, to honor and protect you, forsaking all others and remain faithful to you for as long as both of us shall live.  I acknowledge you, Tan Wai Jia, to be my wife, to have and to hold, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness […]

Man Up on Relationship

I figure I jot this down while the thoughts are still fresh in my head (and in my heart)…. I’ve been through a number of discussion, especially with the male counterparts, about what it means to be Christian man. I often joke that as guys we grunt, eat meat or other male stereotypes.  Sometimes, the […]

Priorities in a Christ-Centered Relationship

If you are a regular to Church, or perhaps you are part of a fellowship, you will often hear the message that we ought to put Christ first in our lives. And sometimes we ask that ourselves, how am I doing that in my life? And sometimes we think it is an impossible ideal.  What […]

Her

It took me some time to write this post.  Partly because I don’t know where to start.  The story is beautiful and intertwine with God at work.  Perhaps, the first question I can start is when Christian say…this is God at work. What does that mean? If I wish for something, say a new job.  I pray […]

Meaning of Marriage (Christian Context)

I was given a task to answer the question: what does marriage means to me? Not that I given this topic much thought as I wasn’t in a relationship or never really thought about marriage (or at least thought about it seriously).  I always find it fascinating that marriage was already define in second chapter […]

Kingdom Seeking Relationship

I am right now at OMF learning the role and the ministry.  So a bit busy in the moment to post updates. A good (and Godly) friend sent me this earlier the week. It pretty much sums out the type of relationship I desire and also the focus of the relationship… Not only praying for […]

Chat: On Marriage and Beauty

me: something that Tim Chester wrote i really thought about this and took it to heart    u should always find your wife beautiful    like when u grow old together..u should still find (or learn to find) your wife beautiful    i think that’s important i mean…appreciate her beauty..is important…    everyone is beautiful b/c everyone is […]

Wait for the Lord

Because of the nature of my job and I work in the Internet Marketing industry, I response to emails very very quickly.  If I know the answer, I will fired back a response in a few minutes. With my quick response nature, almost real-time, I often expect God to give me a response just as […]

Relationship: The List

Picked this list from Boundless Line. When it comes to relationship, there is usually a list of things that one person looks for in the other person… Boundless came up with a list that I found quite relevant. It is definitely a high standard. For me, I don’t think I have much of a list…I […]